Easy Ways to Celebrate Juneteenth (Even If You’re New to It)
A lot of us didn’t grow up celebrating Juneteenth—not because it wasn’t important, but because it wasn’t taught, highlighted, or even mentioned outside certain communities. So if you’re just now figuring out how to celebrate Juneteenth as a full-grown adult trying to get it right, you’re not alone. The good news? It’s never too late to start showing up with intention.
Juneteenth isn’t just a trendy hashtag or another excuse to light up the grill. It’s the commemoration of June 19, 1865—the day the last group of enslaved Black people in Galveston, Texas, were finally told they were free. A full two and a half years after the Emancipation Proclamation was signed. (Yes, really. America has always had a “tell the people later” kind of energy.)
But grown-up celebrations don’t need to be loud or performative to be powerful. Whether you’re honoring your heritage, learning how to be an active ally, or somewhere in between, here are meaningful, empowering, and yes—slightly witty—Juneteenth ideas for how to show up with respect and heart.
Understand the “Why” Before You Celebrate Juneteenth
Before you grab your red punch and start planning your Juneteenth outfit, let’s pause for a second. Understanding why we celebrate Juneteenth isn’t just important—it’s essential. Especially now that it’s officially a federal holiday, and especially if you didn’t grow up with this day etched into your summer memories.
So here’s the truth: Juneteenth marks the day—June 19, 1865—when Union troops arrived in Galveston, Texas, and finally enforced the Emancipation Proclamation. Enslaved people in that region were told, at long last, that they were free. But here’s the kicker: the Emancipation Proclamation had been signed two and a half years earlier. Let that sink in. Freedom was already law, but it was deliberately withheld. Juneteenth is the celebration of freedom delayed—but not denied.
This day has always held deep meaning in the South, particularly among Black communities in Texas and surrounding states. That’s why it’s long been celebrated there with cookouts, parades, music, prayer services, and powerful community traditions—decades before it was recognized nationally. For many, Juneteenth has been the real Independence Day, honoring survival, strength, and a cultural legacy that can’t be erased.
Now that Juneteenth is gaining more mainstream attention, it’s critical to approach it with respect and intention—not appropriation. That means understanding the history, supporting the culture (not mimicking it), and centering the voices of the Black community. You don’t need to post a perfectly curated social media tribute or throw a party with red velvet cupcakes and call it a day. What you do need is reflection, education, and a genuine desire to honor what this day represents.
Learn first. Celebrate second. That’s the best approach – with heart, with humility, and with history in mind.
Support Black-Owned Businesses
Money talks—and grown-ups know how to make theirs say something meaningful. Shopping Black-owned is one of the most direct ways to support generational wealth and economic justice.
Need a shopping excuse? Didn’t think so.
Here are some Juneteenth-friendly product categories you can feel good about supporting:
Skincare & Beauty
Undefined Beauty
This isn’t your average “clean beauty” brand—it’s a movement. Founded by a powerhouse woman of color, Undefined Beauty delivers plant-powered skincare that’s inclusive, effective, and doesn’t cost your entire paycheck. Think CBD serums, radiant skin glow-ups, and packaging that actually makes your bathroom counter look cool. It’s where wellness meets activism—with zero toxic nonsense.
Butter by Keba
If self-care had a signature scent, it would smell like Butter by Keba. These handcrafted body butters and perfumes are made with skin-loving oils and subtle, sophisticated fragrance blends. The kind of grown-up glow-up your skin deserves—especially after a long day of being a fabulous adult who celebrates with intention. Smooth it on, and you’re instantly main-character material.
Health & Wellness
The Honey Pot Company
Yes, they’re known for revolutionizing the feminine care aisle (finally), but The Honey Pot is also about reclaiming wellness, storytelling, and Black woman-centered innovation. From washes to wellness journals, every product is rooted in ancient plant-based traditions and wrapped in unapologetic empowerment. It’s functional, foundational, and seriously freeing.
Books & Journals
MahoganyBooks
If you’re still buying your liberation literature from big-box retailers… let’s redirect. MahoganyBooks is a Black-owned indie shop specializing in literature by, for, and about the African diaspora. From classic authors to modern game-changers, they’ve got shelves full of soul, truth, and brilliance.
Bookshop.org
Bookshop.org is your go-to if you want to support local Black-owned bookshops without changing out of your pajamas. Every purchase helps independent stores thrive—so you can flex your reading habit and your values at the same time. Win-win.
Candles & Vibes
Harlem Candle Co.
These candles are not your basic vanilla vibes. Harlem Candle Co. creates elegant, richly scented candles inspired by Harlem Renaissance icons like Langston Hughes and Josephine Baker. Each one tells a story—of culture, resilience, jazz clubs, and unapologetic Black excellence. Light one, and suddenly your living room feels like a speakeasy with soul.
CultureTags
Who needs small talk when you’ve got CultureTags? This addictive card game is all about decoding hashtags rooted in Black culture—from Sunday dinners to viral memes. It’s fast-paced, hilarious, and basically the cookout in a box. Whether you’re celebrating Juneteenth or just need to outwit your cousins, it’s a vibe you’ll want to repeat every family game night.
Etsy Gems:
Search “Black-owned” + anything you want. Seriously. From art to jewelry to home decor—you’ll find it.
Tip: If you’re going to spend money this week anyway, make it count. Your dollar can do more than just buy things. It can build equity. Shoppe Black is the leading source for all things Black business.
Cook or Try Traditional Foods on Juneteenth
Juneteenth has always included food. Not the sad salad kind—we’re talking celebration meals. Think BBQ, fried chicken, red velvet cake, collard greens, and anything that makes your tastebuds feel seen and loved.
And if you’ve ever heard “red foods” and wondered what that’s about—here’s the lowdown: red symbolizes resilience, strength, and ancestral sacrifice. Red punch, strawberry soda, red velvet anything—it’s a delicious, meaningful tradition.
Too lazy to cook? Try these options:
Lazy Grown-Up Move:
- Order from a Black-owned soul food restaurant near you.
- Try a food truck or pop-up (check local Juneteenth events).
Wanna Flex a Little?:
- Try this Easy BBQ Chicken Recipe
- Pair with this 3-ingredient strawberry punch
Kitchen Tools:
- Pre-seasoned Cast Iron Skillet – Because it’s not soul food if it wasn’t seared with ancestral wisdom
- Instant Pot – The cheat code for greens, beans, and braised everything
Celebrate in Community or Reflection (Juneteenth Isn’t Just a Day Off)
Let’s normalize not treating Juneteenth like just another “yay, no meetings!” day.
Attend Something IRL:
- Local parades, block parties, lectures, museum exhibits, or poetry slams
- Juneteenth yoga in the park? You bet that’s a thing now
Or Stay Home and Plug In:
- Stream a virtual panel, cooking class, or concert
- Follow hashtags like #Juneteenth2025 or #BlackHistory365 for digital events
Journal Prompts for the Reflective Types:
- Define what freedom looks like to me today.
- What role can I play in justice for all—365 days a year?
- What am I unlearning about American history?
Whether you’re vibing at a block party or journaling with incense lit, both are valid. Grown-up Juneteenth celebrations are about alignment with your values.
Elevate the Conversation
Let’s be clear: performative activism is not the vibe. But being silent when you could be spreading awareness? Also not it.
So here’s how to speak up without sounding like a walking TED Talk:
Book Recommendations That Hit Different:
The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson
If U.S. history class skipped everything important, this one fills in the gaps—with receipts.
This sweeping, emotional epic tells the real story of the Great Migration, following three Black Americans who left the Jim Crow South in search of freedom, dignity, and a future. Wilkerson blends intimate storytelling with stunning research, making you feel every train ride, every goodbye, and every moment of resistance. It’s not just a history book—it’s a tribute to resilience. Don’t be surprised if it shifts your whole perspective on what “home” means.
Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates
Part letter, part reckoning, 100% required reading.
Written as a gut-punchingly beautiful letter to his teenage son, Coates unpacks the realities of being Black in America with raw honesty and lyrical brilliance. He doesn’t sugarcoat the pain, fear, or history—but he also uplifts the strength, beauty, and love that exists in the struggle. It’s like reading someone’s soul out loud. If you want to better understand systemic racism and personal identity, this book doesn’t just speak—it resonates.
How the Word Is Passed by Clint Smith
Come for the tour stops, stay for the truth bombs.
Clint Smith takes readers on a journey across America—from Confederate cemeteries to Angola Prison—to examine how this country remembers (or doesn’t) its legacy of slavery. Through conversations, reflections, and poetic prose, he shows that history isn’t just behind us—it’s stitched into the present. This book is insightful without being preachy, educational without being condescending, and full of those “damn, I didn’t know that” moments. Perfect for your grown-up reading list and your next dinner debate.
Thoughtful Social Sharing:
- Post a quote or insight you learned (give credit!)
- Highlight a Black-owned business or artist
- Share your personal growth—even if it’s messy
Real Talk IRL: How to Actually Have These Conversations
“I Don’t See Color” – Talking to That Relative
How to start:
“Hey, I know you say you don’t see color—and I get the intention. But I think it’s more powerful to see it and still treat people with dignity. Want to talk about why visibility matters, especially around Juneteenth?”
Follow-up tip: Use examples from their life—like how they take pride in their own heritage or how they’d feel if their history got skipped over in school.
What Does Freedom Really Mean?
How to start:
“We’re all out here celebrating the Fourth of July like it’s freedom for everyone… but Juneteenth tells a different story. Have you ever thought about how freedom looks different depending on who you ask?”
Follow-up tip: If someone says “freedom is freedom,” gently nudge:
“Sure—but let’s talk about access to that freedom. Who actually felt free in 1865? Or even 1965?”
Continued Education Isn’t Just for Teachers
How to start:
“I’ve been reading some stuff lately that really opened my eyes. It made me realize how much I didn’t learn growing up—especially about Black history. You ever feel like school left out a few chapters?”
Follow-up tip: Offer to swap resources:
“If you’re open, I’ve got a great documentary/book/podcast that helped me connect the dots. Wanna watch it together or compare notes over coffee?”
Bonus Tip: Read the Room
Not every convo needs to be a full-on seminar. Sometimes it’s just dropping a fact, asking a thoughtful question, or even saying:
“I’m still learning too. But Juneteenth has me reflecting on what freedom, justice, and support really look like.”
Because grown-up conversations aren’t always comfortable—but they are necessary. And they’re how we grow.
Create a Juneteenth Ritual You Keep Yearly
Growth isn’t seasonal. Create your own grown-up Juneteenth ritual—one that feels yours.
Here are a few to consider:
Annual Freedom Picnic – Food, books, and good people in the park
Donation Day – Give to racial justice organizations or community bail funds
Gratitude + Growth Journal – Reflect on your own freedom, power, and privilege
You don’t need to post it, hashtag it, or package it in Canva. Make it meaningful to you, and repeat it year after year. That’s the grown-up way.
Final Thoughts: Growth is Embracing Growth
The truth? You don’t need to know everything to start showing up better. Learning, unlearning, and honoring Juneteenth isn’t about checking boxes—it’s about choosing to engage with history and humanity in deeper ways. Every year… every season… every day.
So whether you’re cooking red beans and rice, shopping with purpose, or just reading a new book about Black history—you’re doing the work.
Ready to grow up and glow up?
Drop a comment below with how you’re celebrating Juneteenth this year—or tag @adultinglikeagrownup on social to share your reflections, rituals, or red punch recipes. Let’s make freedom part of the lifestyle.
